… When Husbands Feel Rejected, Emasculated and Disrespected In this article, I will be speaking directly to husbands that feel despised by their wives and wives that harbor and demonstrate substantial contempt for their husbands. I am aware that many wives identify with the premise of this article, and I…

……………..Tweeting, Cheating, Texting, Messaging Social media is THE perfect invention for people prone to cheating! It’s like, one day, we hit a certain age; have too many adult beverages; is loneliness; and/or doesn’t feel particularly sexy or desired, and an easy antidote looks something like posting a hot selfie on…

….. And the 1 Action that Can Help Assertiveness and aggressiveness; Oh how the two are often confused. In reality, some of the most assertive people are actually some the kindest people you probable know. So what exactly is assertiveness? Assertiveness IS: Maintaining & Communicating your Boundary Maintaining & Communicating…

………….And the 1 Thing You Can Do About It Many, if not most, couples find that after the initial Dopamine high of new lust fades, sex is a chore and no longer a “Must Have” commodity. Unfortunately (or fortunately) the person with the lower sex drive in the relationship controls…

…..Empathy Goes A Long Way With the Betrayed Partner After Infidelity Empathy is powerful. The display of empathy by an unfaithful partner can single handedly start to heal the relationship after an affair. …

Yes, it is true that not every relationship considers pornography as infidelity, but in my experience as a licensed marriage and family therapy, many people do. If you or your partner considers pornography as infidelity, it is. …

Build A Brand New Relationship After Infidelity; Don’t Simply Repair the Broken Parts It may seem logical to think that working to heal your relationship after infidelity occurs would be enough, but it’s simply not. Instead, couples should focus their energy and work into building a brand new relationship, just with the same person. If your relationship is a house and a tornado…

As a child, I remember thinking that my mother has to be the best mother in the whole world. I felt like she had all of the correct answers, and as far as I knew, she did. As a teenager, I felt that my mother was strict, but I thought…

In my practice, as a licensed marriage and family therapist, I find it astounding at how many individuals and couples are dealing with infidelity and relationship betrayal trauma. Infidelity is a monster; your life feels like a horror movie. Betrayal CAN produce trauma. Relationship Betrayal typically occurs when your partner engages…